Synchronicity is not directional

I have long thought, that synchronicities prove something was meant to be.  I had to reconsider this truth when I met a man and the synchronicities between us were AMAZING!!!  Uncanny, unending, and unbelievable.  Well, certainly I've never experienced this before in an intimate relationship.  He must be "the one".  Well...... he wasn't.  Huh?  I didn't think that was possible.  Yet, I share a psychic connection with a child, and I'd never think it was meant to Be something, so maybe Psychic is, and it doesn't prove directionality.  Also, there have been moments of synchronicity while looking for a job.   I'm given ideas that foreshadow events.  I follow the thread, and still nothing.  It's not the job.  Huh?  I didn't think it would play out like that.  Maybe the thing is being in the flow, means you are where you need to be, but it doesn't mean any certain result will occur.  The universe doesn't value one result over another, so staying on the course doesn't mean you will get your desired result.  But I suppose even if you don't get the desired result, staying in the flow provides you will information ahead of time, and it's just a nicer way to live.  To pay attention, and follow the thread is in itself a treat, whatever the outcome.  I have one example out of three, where the outcome is what I'd hoped, but even that felt so different.  It wasn't a following the thread, a teasing out of a single direction.  It was instead, a dead run to keep up with what the universe was throwing my way.  Thank goddess (goodness) I did the work along the way, so when they needed 15 final drafts in 3 days I could hand it off instead of beginning the work.  The fact that the work was done felt like a synchronicity in itself.